This is the Schneider-Farris Family's Blog. Keep up with what we are doing by logging into this site regularly! (The reason this site is called "Tragedy and Triumph" is that when I first founded this site, my husband, Dan, had been in a horrible accident, and he recovered. His recovery was a miracle! Go back to the 2005 archives to read our story.)

Wednesday, January 18, 2006

Dan goes to visit his parents in California

Dan (and his brother Mike) rented a car and left for Long Beach, California today. Last time Dan's parents saw Dan he was in traction and in a coma and in critical condition. This visit should be quite different.

Monday, January 16, 2006

A few small steps

On Monday, October 16, Dan's physician gave him the okay to put weight on his left foot.

So, that evening (like in the story HEIDI) , Dan got up out of his wheelchair and walked about 3 feet to Jo Ann's arms.

You guessed it...Jo Ann cried tears of joy.

Thursday, January 12, 2006

Look Ma, No hands! 1-10-06


Look Ma, No hands! (Well, it was about 60 seconds of standing without holding on to something.)

Tuesday, January 10, 2006

1-10-06 -- Dan "walked" with his walker down our driveway and back!


Dan "walked" with his walker down the length of our driveway and down the street for a few feet and back into the house today! We are looking forward to borrowing a pair of crutches and seeing how he does using crutches. He is still not able to put weight on his left foot yet (doctor's orders).

Friday, January 06, 2006

Surgery went smoothly!

Today's surgery went smoothly! Now we wait and see if Dan can walk again.

It is just marvelous to know that Dan is not paralyzed or brain damaged or...or...or dead.

Wow.....our family will never forget the miracle of Dan being alive!

What will 2006 bring? We wonder; we wait.

Wednesday, January 04, 2006

Surgery scheduled for Friday, January 6, 2006

Dan will have the pins removed from his left foot during an outpatient surgery on Friday, January 6, 2006 at 4:30 PM.

We now will wonder how long before Dan will walk again? It may not be long.

Will he walk perfectly? That may take time, but we are so grateful Dan is alive and with us.

Wheelchair at Chanukah on Ice - Decenber 28, 2005

Take a look at Dan on the ice with his brother Mike and "Dan's girls."


Monday, December 26, 2005

Inline Skating while pushing Dan in his wheelchair!


I wrote this to a Yahoo Group of artistic inline skaters.

I just had to share it with those who log in to check on updates on Dan.

Enjoy! I did take a photo of this wonderful memory and will ad it to this entry when I get the film developed.

'Today was a beautiful day in Colorado and I took my children
outside to play and my 6 year old put on her Pic Skates and began
pushing her doll which was in a stroller. She dashed down the
sidewalk and inspired me with an idea!

I asked my brother-in-law (who is 61 years old!) if he wanted to try
putting on my husband's inline skates and try pushing my husband down
the street in his wheelchair.

Well, imagine this: my brother-in-law (he's been helping up take care
of my husband since the accident) has never inline skated and only
ice skated a few times in his life and he had a blast pushing that
wheelchair and skating!

I HAD to try it and it was SO FUN to push my husband down the
street! My husband even got some speed going! I was wearing my
Entry Level Artistic Figure Skates from China and it seemed as we
were going down small hills that I was taking a ride!

I even did spirals and jumps and brackets as we "strolled"
and "rolled" down the street while hanging on to his wheelchair!

Anyway, this is a very happy "skating memory" that I had to share in
the midst of much stress.

Happy Holidays!'

Friday, December 16, 2005

Dan stood on one foot while pushing a walker!


It was a time of emotion at 5:15 PM on 12-16-05 (exactly 13 weeks since THE ACCIDENT). Dan stood on one foot (right--he can't put weight on the left yet) and pushed a walker in our kitchen for about 5 feet. Jo Ann cried. The children jumped up and down and clapped!

Wednesday, December 14, 2005

Big excitement -- Dan can take a shower at home now!

Dan's wheelchair has not been able to fit in our bathroom and he's been home a little over 7 weeks now, so Dan has had to take sponge baths and use a commode (not fun!).

Well, last weekend, the children and Jo Ann went to Office Max and bought an office chair that has wheels. Now Dan can transfer to that chair from his wheelchair and get into the bathroom and do things we all take for granted.

We also bought a bath stool that goes right in the tub so Dan can take showers!

Today, Dan got to take a shower at home -- 12/14/05.

Yeah!

Monday, December 12, 2005

A Day Like Hans Brinker and the Silver Skates 12-10-05


On Saturday, December 10, the children participated in a holiday ice show at the Chapel Hills Ice Rink.

What made the experience a time of celebration and joy was that Dan got to come and watch the children perform!

We pulled his wheelchair right to the rail and he video-taped their performances.

Annabelle dressed up as Belle from "Beauty and the Beast" and did a pair program with Sam Anderson. Rebekah wore a red candy cane skating dress and put a Santa Claus scrunchie in her hair and Joel wore a bright green turtleneck, black pants, and red boot covers and Joel and Rebekah skated to "The Chipmunk Christmas Song" while skating the Dutch Waltz and Starlight Waltz and doing a spiral-spin ending.

After the performance, we all went out to dinner at Jason's Deli.

Yes, it was like the end of the movie "Hans Brinker and the Silver Skates" because in that movie the children were so excited that their father was able to watch them skate even though he was not fully recovered, but able to celebrate from a wheelchair.

We continue to be thankful as Dan continues to recover.

Thursday, December 08, 2005

Dan begins physical therapy on his right foot 12-8-05

Today Dan will begin physical therapy on his right foot. He will go to an out-patient rehab facility 2 times a weeks for 6 weeks.

Jo Ann has asked Santa if Dan could stand on one foot by Christmas.

Wednesday, December 07, 2005

The "thing" on Dan's right foot has been removed -- Yippee!

The "thing" or external fixator on Dan's right foot was removed Monday, December 5! Yippee! That means he may be able to put weight on his right foot soon.

Friday, December 02, 2005

12-1-05 Dan went out to eat and took the children to see Santa!



Yesterday Dan went to the mall with us and watched the children skate and we all went out to eat as a family and we took the children to see Santa. Dan's sister Penny is visiting. Dan still is not feeling completely well, but the kidney stones seem to be under control.

Here's who is in the photo: Joel, Annabelle, Rebekah, above them is Santa, Dan is in the wheelchair, above him is his older brother Mike, Jo Ann is next to Dan, and Dan's sister Penny is next to Jo Ann.

Monday, November 28, 2005

Monday morning 11-28-05 --- More Pain and Vomiting

We are disappointed this morning.

Dan spent the night with more pain and vomiting. He says he is passing another kidney stone.

I hope that is all.

It had been so nice to see Dan well for the Thanksgiving Weekend and we hope this episode will pass before Dan's sister Penny visits from California this coming Wednesday.

Saturday, November 26, 2005

Dan goes out! Friday 11/25 and Saturday 11/26

Yesterday, we went to the Colorado Springs Southeast YMCA as a family. The kids and I went swimming and Dan (with Mike helping him) used the handicapped restrooms and got to take a shower. Our house's bathrooms have not had a door large enough for the wheelchair to get through, so Dan has had to take sponge baths since he left the hospital. Now that we know Dan can get to the YMCA without too much problem, he'll get showers! Yippee!

Also, today, all of us visited my parents' house in Larkspur, so Dan has been "out" twice for more than trips to the doctor or hospital.

We are so happy to be together as a family again!

Thursday, November 24, 2005

Thanksgiving Day!




Our family had the BEST Thanksgiving Day!

My parents came and we ate in the dining room and Dan was able to sit in his wheelchair all day and we had a feast.

We are so happy that Dan is well and with us. Our fear that we may have had to spend Thanksgiving at the hospital did not come true.

Happy Thanksgiving -- Hurray, Hurray, Hurray!

Wednesday, November 23, 2005

Thanksgiving Eve -- Dan is better!

Good news -- the pain and vomiting have stopped and if the source was really just a kidney stone (not related to THE ACCIDENT), well, the kidney stone has been passed this afternoon!

Dan didn't need to have surgery afterall and our family will have a Happy Thankgiving!

Thank you for your thoughts and prayers.

Tuesday, November 22, 2005

Dan not getting better -- 11/22/05

Dan is not getting better; however, there is some hope tomorrow: he will go to a doctor in the morning who may be able to figure out what is wrong. He has not been able to stop being in pain for a week now and keeps vomiting. It has been discouraging. We had thought earlier today that he'd have to return to the hospital and stay overnight, and we are grateful that he can be treated as an outpatient tomorrow. We do hope we can have Thanksgiving together as a family.

Sunday, November 20, 2005

Dan still not well -- Sunday 11-20-05

Dan did go home late Thursday night from the ER and..

...Friday, he was home, but still in horrible pain and vomiting
and yesterday morning he returned to the ER. He was home again by Saturday afternoon on a new medication that hopefully will stop the vomiting.

Sunday, he slept a lot and was still in pain. We will try to get an appointment set up with his regular doctor on Monday or Tuesday.

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Jo Ann Schneider Farris has participated in skating for most of her life as a competitor, coach, and author.

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