Dan is never late.
He walks in the house exactly at 5:40 PM if he takes the bus home.
It was 5:50 PM when we arrived home. "How long should I wait before I begin to worry?" I wondered.
At 5:55 PM, I called my father to tell him about the competition and seeing my brother Billy and some of the good skaters and I mentioned Dan's being late. I asked how long I should wait before calling the police to report a missing person. My father told me not to worry and suggested that Dan may have missed his bus. I explained to my dad that Dan could not have missed the bus since it left from a downtown station after 5:00 PM and Dan got off work at 4:30 PM. My dad told me again not to worry and told me he was in the middle of a TV show and had to go.
I then tried to call Dan's cell and Dan's office. Of course, there was no answer at his office, and I noticed the cell phone didn't sound right -- no recorded greeting, just a message that the phone was not working. I tried the cell number again and then, my phone rang and it was the police.
The police asked who was speaking and when I identified myself as Dan's wife, I was asked to report to Colorado Springs Memorial Hospital's Emergency Room immediately and that my husband had been in an accident. When I began to ask questions, the phone connection was lost.
Finally a call came through on my caller ID from Memorial Hospital. The policeman explained he could not give any details over the phone and asked again if I could come to the hospital ASAP. I asked if my husband was dead, hit by a car, or shot, but I could not be given an answer over the phone.
So, the children and I quickly put away any groceries that needed refridgeration, locked up the house, and headed for the hospital. Everyone was very excited and all three children, I recall, were crying.
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- Lung danger and fever
- Our car was rear-ended
- Should the children see Dan "this way?"
- Pelvic Surgery on Tuesday
- Monday, September 19
- Sunday, September 18
- John suggests it is time to go home
- Mark Enos visits
- John really helped
- After lunch
- More Saturday
- Early Saturday
- The First Night
- Trip home
- The ICU waiting room blur
- Emergency Room
- The drive to the hospital
- He's late, what should I do?
- No phone call from Dan?
- Just a Typical Day
- We waved good-bye just before 7:00 AM
- September 16, 2005
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About Me
- JO ANN Schneider Farris
- Jo Ann Schneider Farris has participated in skating for most of her life as a competitor, coach, and author.
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